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Showing posts with label Personality Development. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Personality Development. Show all posts

Thursday, August 7, 2008

Leadership Characteristics You Can Learn

They say leaders are born, hence it implies that the qualities of a leader can't be learned. I don't personally believe in that. The characteristics of a leader can be learned or even mastered. Leadership is sometimes described as a set of behaviors and you don't have to wait until you are a manager and leading a team before you pick up these traits. They will serve you well as you make your way to the top.

1.Focus On The Solution
Good leaders focus on the solution and never the problem. They do not let what has happened bother them because they know; they control the future by focusing on the present. This characteristic can be easily practiced at the junior level. When problem occurs, you don't have to be the leader but you can help the team focus on the solution.

2. Take First Person Responsibility
When things go wrong, leaders do not point fingers. They take first person responsibility for what has happened. They know they are ultimately responsible for the group’s result. If you begin to take first person responsibility, this leadership characteristic would develop into a habit. This habit would follow you as you grow into more important positions.

3. Lead By Example
The best leaders are those who practice what they preach. Ever seen a leader who wants everyone to come in early and does not do so himself/herself? How did that make you feel? Practice this characteristic when you are given small tasks. If you want your team to work hard you must first work hard yourself.

4. Share Glory With The Team
This leadership characteristic is perhaps tough to emulate especially when you are all trying to shine in your work. There is a tendency to horde all the credit for yourself. That’s not to say you should not take credit for work that is genuinely completed by yourself. But on projects that are team oriented, share the glory. People do not follow leaders who are selfish.


5. Deep Understanding Of Team Dynamics
This is another good leadership characteristic that you can develop from a junior level. Be a keen observer of human behavior. When you start to observe people, you learn about people’s strengths and weaknesses. What they are innately good at and what they aren’t. Once you develop this skill, you will be able to pick out the best task for the right people with the correct skills. Leaders understand team dynamics in such a way that they know the ‘hot buttons’ to push in order to get the best out of their people.

6.Excellent At Transferring Enthusiasm
Leaders have high energy levels. They do not only communicate well but they are able to transfer their enthusiasm to the team. Motivating the team to perform better than their perceived capability. Such leadership characteristics can be practiced especially when you receive a task that you may not feel entirely interested in. How do you do that? Try researching deeper into the task. Understand it. Understand your role in the bigger scheme of things. Understand your team’s role in achieving goals. When you get highly involved, you have a higher chance of being more enthusiastic about it. Then you can begin to get others interested.

7. Master In Communication
It is said that communication is an art. Practice this art and be a master in it. Good leaders understand that communication is a two way street. To motivate you must be able to listen to the spoken and unspoken concerns. This leadership characteristic builds trust and in the long run benefits the team as its members understand that there are no hidden agenda.

There are many leadership characteristics that you can learn and emulate even at a junior level. However, in my personal experience these leadership characteristics and skills are the easiest to practice and develop into a habit.

The opportunities to practice these leadership characteristics are abundant. You should start on some of these as you grow in your career.

Sunday, August 3, 2008

7 Easy Ways That Will Help You Develop Your Self Esteem

People suffering from poor self esteem don't think they can reach a goal and may not even attempt it. Doubts and negativity are the trademark signs of low self esteem and they would therefore never find out if they would have been a success or not. Developing self esteem seems simple enough to achieve but it is not that easy and requires a dedicated approach if one suffering from poor self esteem is to succeed.

Having a healthy self esteem goes a long way to assisting us achieve our goals through positive thinking and positive action. All of us wish for a happy and successful life. Those suffering from poor self esteem don't think they can achieve a goal and may not even attempt it. Doubts and negativity are the trademark signs of low self esteem. If you seriously wish to live a life filled with contentment and happiness, then you need to possess a healthy dose of self esteem.

So what are the things you should do to enhance your self esteem? Here are some tips which might help you develop your confidence.

1. Be a Winner

If you tell yourself you are a winner you will come to believe it and will have taken one leap further in developing self esteem. Considering yourself a winner rather than a loser will make you feel great and thus bolster your self esteem. If you think you are a winner and successful you already halfway to achieving your goal.

2. Turns Anxious Thoughts into Positive Thoughts
Other ways of developing positive self esteem include learning to turn anxiety into positive thinking, learning from your mistakes and to turn mistakes into chances for further self-improvement and making it a point to be in the company of those who bring out the best in you rather than associating with those who make you do the wrong things and do not give you the credit and encouragement you deserve.

3. Make Positive Thoughts the Norm.

The first step to take with regard to developing positive self esteem is to consciously try to think in a positive manner. Much of the success of the points below stem from positive thinking. If you are one who is in need of developing self esteem, you should take heart from the fact that it is certainly possible and also quite simple to achieve your goals though at the same time it is not very easy to achieve.

4. Don't Doubt Success
If you stop doing something before you have really tried because you doubt yourself you may be suffering from low self esteem. Having doubts about your own abilities is a very common symptom of low self esteem. This is the point where you have to have strong positive thoughts and be able to tell yourself that you are totally capable of succeeding and that you could actually do the job better than another individual.

5. Don't Be Negativity

"Dwelling on the negative simply contributes to its power" by Shirley MacLaine.

There is nothing as true as the quote above. A key point to developing self esteem is to consciously stop yourself from negative thinking from dawn until the minute you go to sleep at night. Cast aside all negative thoughts from your mind and think positively, you will be surprised how quickly you can turn your thoughts around.

6. Search for Your Real Self

Take some steps to discover your real self. Some other simple steps that you can take with regard to developing self esteem knowing just what you can succeed at and what will make you fail and in addition. You will be able to take responsibility for your own actions.

7. Encourage Encouragement

Lastly, developing self esteem also means eliminating all thoughts that can damage your self-esteem and instead you should concentrate only on finding some means to get encouragement and this is best achieved through thinking positively. Again, hanging out with those who will offer you encouragement for your actions will help you every step of the way.